Dec 28, 2024

New Year Reading: Books with Fascinating Themes and POVs

 Memes:  The Sunday PostIt's Monday: What Are You Reading, Sunday Salon, and Stacking the Shelves 

I dip in and out of many books looking for interesting premises. I don’t always read all of the books I find from cover to cover, as there are so many I want to get to, in the end. Here are a few.

The Mind Electric

A Neurologist on the Strangeness and Wonder of Our Brains

June 10, 2025; Washington Square Press, NetGalley


Description: In The Mind Electric, neurologist Pria Anand reveals—through case study, history, fable, and memoir—all that the medical establishment has overlooked: the complexity and wonder of brains in health and in extremis, and the vast gray area between sanity and insanity, doctor and patient, and illness and wellness, each separated from the next by the thin veneer of a different story.

I am looking forward to reading these stories in depth, as the brain is an investigation that is absorbing and compelling.



Rejection by Tony Tulathimutte, Sept. 17, 2024; William Morrow, NetGalley

Fiction


I chose this book as it's a complex and yet fascinating subject for modern society. Which of us has never had to deal with rejection in one form or the other, and how did we manage? 

Description: An electrifying novel-in-stories that follows a cast of intricately linked characters as rejection throws their lives and relationships into chaos.

Sharply observant and outrageously funny, Rejection is a provocative plunge into the touchiest problems of modern life. The seven connected stories seamlessly transition between the personal crises of a complex ensemble and the comic tragedies of sex, relationships, identity, and the internet.

Tony Tulathimutte’s first novel Private Citizens was called “the first great millennial novel” by New York Magazine. A graduate of Stanford University and the Iowa Writers’ Workshop, he has written for The Paris Review, The New York Times, VICE, WIRED, The New Yorker, The New Republic, Playboy, and others. He teaches the writing class CRIT in Brooklyn.

Unassimilable

An Asian Diasporic Manifesto for the Twenty-First Century


Descripton:  A socio-political examination of Asians Americans who refuse to assimilate and instead build their own belonging on their own terms outside of mainstream American institutions, transforming how we understand race, class, and citizenship in America.

The author transforms the ways we understand race, class, citizenship, and the concept of assimilation and its impact on Asian American communities from the nineteenth century to present day.

My thoughts: I think this description of a group of minority peoples who build their own society do it in the same way that many immigrants have done through American history. Think of Chinatown, Italian town, Greek town, and many others who form a wide ethnic America.

Bianca Mabute-Louie, MA is a doctoral student and graduate research assistant in the Sociology department at Rice University. Her research examines how religious socialization shapes the racial attitudes and political engagement of Asian Americans.  

Nexus: a Brief History of Information Networks by Yuval Noah Harari

Description: the groundbreaking story of how information networks have made, and unmade, our world.

Yuval Noah Harari asks us to consider the complex relationship between information and truth, bureaucracy and mythology, wisdom and power. He explores how different societies and political systems throughout history have wielded information to achieve their goals, for good and ill. And he addresses the urgent choices we face as non-human intelligence threatens our very existence.

What are you reading or watching this week? 

Dec 21, 2024

Sunday Salon: Letting Go of September by Sandra J. Jackson

 

Books reviewed


Letting Go of September by Sandra J. Jackson, July 31, 2024; BooksGoSocial

Genre: thriller, family drama

Themes: reflective, suspenseful, nature descriptions, dramatic, family 

I picked this book because of the unusual title, Letting Go of September, piqued my interest.

Garrett Emerson has lost his wife, Ember, who disappeared after leaving a note of farewell, which he finds both puzzling and uncharacteristic of her. He lives alone now in his big house with his dog Sam, at the edge of his acres of forest land, flipping houses for a living. 

 Life goes on until there is tension when the remains of unidentified women begin to crop up around the area, making Garrett and the others uneasy. 

 A young couple, Elizabeth and Josh, move in nearby.The lives of the couple and Garrett intersect, their history seemingly connected through a past romantic fling of Garrett's and the unknown mother of Elizabeth who had disappeared when she was only 11-years-old. 

The theme of disappearing women flows through the book, as the lives of those people who knew or who miss the women are affected. This was a well planned thriller, even though connections become clear before the book's ending. I like the suspense, the main characters, and the natural surroundings. 

The writing is clear, descriptive, and effective. The poetic view of nature in autumn and winter are excellent, especially as the setting plays such an important part in the drama of the story.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the advance copy of this book.



The Magic of Lemon Drop Pie by Rachel Linden, August 2, 2022; Berkley

Genre: magical realism, romance

The title of this book made me choose it,  as I love both lemon pie and the idea of lemon pie! One of my favorites.

In this story, Lolly is approaching 33 years of age, yet is stuck in an uneventful present, having forgotten her youthful hopes of opening her own restaurant, finding love, and moving to a new city. Her duties towards an ailing father and a younger sister keep her at their struggling family diner, her lost high school crush always on her mind.

When great-great Aunt Gert gives Lolly three magic lemon drops to take overnight, giving her three tries at a different life for one day, Lolly sees what her life might have been if she had chosen a different path earlier on, and decides which of the three she would really want right then. She uses this information about herself to try and move forward on a path closer to her dreams. 

An easy to read romance with a likeable main character, and a unique plot, plus a fabulous recipe for lemon drop pie at the end. This was a light but enjoyable romance read.

 Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the advance version of this book. 


To Read:


Ex Marks the Spot by Gloria Chao, publication Dec. 31, 2024, Penguin Random House

A YA book set to be published New Year's Eve. If I stay in that day, this could be my read. 

Set in Taiwan, it's a rival-to-lovers romance. For a treasure hunt leading to her inheritance from a grandfather, Gemma flies to his home in the city of Taipei and its vibrant street scenes. 

I've read books in setting in Korea and China and other Asian cities, but only a few in Taiwan. It's time to armchair travel there to find out more about it. 

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the advance version of this book. 


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Around The Blogosphere

What are you reading or watching this week? 

Memes:  The Sunday PostIt's Monday: What Are You Reading, Sunday Salon, and Stacking the Shelves  

Dec 14, 2024

Sunday Salon: Books to be Read and Books Finished

 Currently reading, thanks to NetGalley and the publishers


A House for Miss Pauline by Diana McCaulay, Feb. 25, 2025; Algonquin Books. Genre: adult novel, fantasy

I was eager to read this book by author Diana McCaulay, about a ninety-nine year-old woman in rural Jamaica who is fierce about the land she owns.

Description: With an unforgettably fierce 99-year-old Jamaican heroine, A House for Miss Pauline is a tender story with a mystery at its heart that asks profound and urgent questions about who owns the land on which our identities are forged



How to Seal Your Own Fate by Kristen Perrin, April 29, 2025; Dutton. Genre: cozy mystery, thriller

Description: Kristen Perrin is back with the second novel in her Castle Knoll series. Annie Adams is caught in a new web of murder that spans decades, returning us to the idyllic English village that holds layers of secrets.

I am enjoying this but only wish I had read the first novel, as this one refers back to incidents that happened in that book with carry over to the follow up novel. Still an interesting read, though.


I finished two books



White Mulberry 


Kinda Korean

Both books are by Korean American authors. I'll save the reviews for Jan. 13, Korean American Day, which is on a Sunday. Perfect for that week's Sunday Salon. 

What are you reading or watching this week? 

Memes:  The Sunday PostIt's Monday: What Are You Reading, Sunday Salon, and Stacking the Shelves  

Dec 7, 2024

Han Kang: Witness Literature

A new genre to me: Witness literature - stories and narratives that reflect a writer's knowledge and experience of world shattering events that require "mourning and healing".  

In December 2001, the Swedish Academy organized a symposium on the theme of “Witness Literature”. Speakers from Asia, Africa and Europe included three Nobel laureates in literature: Nadine Gordimer, Kenzaburo Oe and Gao Xingjian. (World Scientific)

Add to the writers of this genre, 2024 Nobel Laureate, Han Kang of Korea


We Do Not Part: A Novel by Han Kang, publication Jan. 21, 2025, Hogarth, NetGalley. Genre: historical fiction, literary fiction, Asian literature, Nobel Prize

Description: 

Blurring the boundaries between dream and reality, We Do Not Part powerfully illuminates a forgotten chapter in Korean history, buried for decades—bringing to light the lost voices of the past to save them from oblivion. Both a hymn to an enduring friendship and an argument for remembering, it is the story of profound love in the face of unspeakable violence—and a celebration of life, however fragile it might be. (publisher)


On a lighter yet also significant note, an historical novel


White Mulberry by Rosa Kwon Easton, December 1, 2024; Lake Union Publishing, NetGalley. Historical fiction, women's fiction

Description: 

A rich, deeply moving portrait of a young Korean woman in 1930s Japan who is torn between two worlds and must reclaim her true identity to provide a future for her family. Inspired by the life of the author's grandmother.

As war looms on a new front and Miyoung feels the constraints of her adopted home tighten, she is faced with a choice that will change her life—and the lives of those she loves—forever.

I am fascinated by the history of Koreans in Japan, from pre-war to the present. Other books on this topic include Pachinko by Min Jin Lee. This one tells a story of belonging but yet not quite belonging to an adopted country.


And even lighter still:


The Autumn of Ruth Winters by Marshall Fine, Nov. 5, 2024; Lake Union Publishing. Women's fiction, retirees

I won this ebook and am enjoying the retired, widowed bookkeeper in Minnesota who babysits in her spare time and whose hum drum life begins to explode when her estranged sister calls her for help. In addition, an old high school crush contacts her again to meet up at their class reunion.

Another ebook win that's also a good break from more serious reads:
Happy After All by Maisey Yates, Jan. 1, 2025, Montlake.

I love the desert setting in northern California, and the motel with the flamingo theme that caters to everyone, including quirky senior citizens who live there long term, and the occasional famous book novelist who arrives to finish a book in silence and anonymity.

This is labeled a Meet-Cute romance novel, with all the other romantic tropes thrown in to emphasize the writer that is the main character and narrator, Amelia. 

A fun read, with Meet-Cute turning out to be Enemy to Friends to Lovers trope. And of course a happily ever after ending, improbable as the details may be.
 

Update on Boardman and others
I have decided to ignore the bots or others that continue to troll my blog posts. I'll just take it as a compliment. 

What are you reading or watching this week? 

Memes:  The Sunday PostIt's Monday: What Are You Reading, Sunday Salon, and Stacking the Shelves  


Nov 30, 2024

Sunday Salon: A Slew of New Books to Read

 Copying of blog posts ?

I recently added a LiveTraffic Feed to the lower right side of my blog and have noticed that someone from Boardman, whatever, wherever, or whoever that might be, has been regularly and systematically combing my posts from all years since the blog first started to the present. Here is just a small sample of searches from Boardman over the past many, many weeks. I am flattered, but.... scanned one of the posts in those searches on a plagiarism site and found that indeed, someone has used many of my sentences about the book in question. 

How does one deal with this? I don't earn anything from my blog, all of my reviews are free. 

A visitor from Boardman viewed '10/1/13 - 11/1/132 hrs 10 mins ago

A visitor from Dallas viewed '10/1/13 - 11/1/132 hrs 10 mins ago
A visitor from Boardman viewed '11/1/11 - 12/1/112 hrs 15 mins ago
A visitor from Council bluffs viewed '11/1/11 - 12/1/112 hrs 16 mins ago
A visitor from Lewisham viewed 'BookBirdDog (BookDilettante)3 hrs 11 mins ago
A visitor from Boardman viewed '2/1/17 - 3/1/17

An author on FB suggested it might be a bot! Here's what I found on Quora:
Here are some ways to stop bots from crawling your website:
  1. Use Robots.txt. The robots.txt file is a simple way to tell search engines and other bots which pages on your site should not be crawled. ...
  2. Implement CAPTCHAs. ...
  3. Use HTTP Authentication. ...
  4. Block IP Addresses. ...
  5. Use Referrer Spam Blockers

UPDATE: I activated the robots.txt file in my blog settings, and http authenticaton, but this hasn’t worked. Boardman is as active as ever! 

Just published

Apartment Women by Gu Byeong-mo, translated, December 3, 2024; Hanover Square; NetGalley

Genre; literary fiction, Korea, women's fiction

Description: "a story of family, marriage and the cultural expectations of motherhood,
about four women whose lives intersect in dramatic and unexpected ways at a government-run apartment complex outside Seoul

When Yojin moves with her husband and daughter into the Dream Future Pilot Communal Apartments, she’s ready for a fresh start. Located on the outskirts of Seoul, the experimental community is a government initiative designed to boost the national birth rate. Like her neighbors, Yojin has agreed to have at least two more children over the next ten years.

Yet, from the day she arrives, Yojin feels uneasy about the community spirit thrust upon her. Her concerns grow as communal child care begins and the other parents show their true colors. Apartment Women traces the lives of four women in the apartments, all with different aspirations and beliefs. Will they find a way to live peacefully? Or are the cultural expectations around parenthood stacked against them from the start?

A trenchant social novel from an award-winning author, Apartment Women illuminates the imbalance of women’s parenting labor, challenging the assumption that “it takes a village” to raise a child."

I'm looking forward to reading this one, about parenting styles.


Taken by Danielle Ramsay, Nov. 25, 2024; Boldwood
Genre: thriller

Description: "I am accused of the worst of crimes – murdering my baby – and I have hours before this passenger ferry docks in Spain to find him, alive.

Someone knows about my difficult past and darkest secrets, and now I think they’ve taken my baby. But who would do this to me and why? I know the answer. Or least I think I do…

Despite what my husband says, I’m not ill. Am I? For I have discovered he has an agenda…"

This novel got my attention because it's not only a thriller but it's set in Spain!



When Mimi Went Missing by Suja Sukumar, Nov. 19, 2024; Soho Teen
Genre: thriller, YA mystery

Description: The splintered relationship between two Indian American cousins is at the center of this dark, twisty YA mystery—

Shy, nerdy Tanvi has always thought of her perfect cousin Mimi as her sister. Not only did Mimi’s family raise Tanvi after the tragic death of her parents, fierce Mimi has always protected Tanvi at school. 

When Tanvi captures an incriminating photo of Mimi and a rival Beth at a party, she wakes up the next day with a bump on her head, and no memory of what caused her injuries, Mimi is gone.

The search for Mimi takes a dark turn as the cops announce that they are now hunting a murderer. Could Tanvi be the killer? Tanvi must discover if she’s capable of murder—and the truth of what happened to Mimi.

Another missing person thriller I'll look forward to reading. 



Nobody's Perfect by Sally Kilpatrick, Dec. 1. 2024; Montlake

Genre: women's fiction, contemporary, humor, romance

Description: Vivian Quackenbush enjoys a typical life. She has winesday evenings with her two best friends. Her son is in college. (But) after nearly twenty-five years of marriage, Mitch wants a divorce. He confesses that he doesn’t love her anymore.

What is Vivian to do but channel her anger, frustration, and pain into a video she posts online. Overnight, Vivian goes viral. Millions of views and counting. Vivian 2.0 chooses to lean—maybe even toward the younger single father next door.

Now Vivian is wondering where she goes from here. She’s discovering that somewhere in her trending if upended life, she’ll have to figure out who she really wants to be.


So these reads are in my immediate future. What are yours? 

Memes:  The Sunday PostIt's Monday: What Are You Reading, Sunday Salon, and Stacking the Shelves  

Nov 16, 2024

The House Swap: Three Domestic Thrillers

 These two domestic thrillers with the same theme and title are as similar as they are different.

by Rebecca Fleet
May 22, 2018; Penguin Books

 "A domestic noir novel, in which a house swap becomes the  backdrop to a crumbling marriage, a torrid affair, and the fatal consequences."

Caroline and Francis accept an online offer to swap their London apartment for a house in the suburbs for a week. Leaving their young son with a relative, they hope to forget their troubles on this vacation.

I like how the plot builds suspense as time goes on. Caroline finds familiar items in the starkly decorated house that bring back the past - a vase of pink flowers, familiar music that they find in the house that brings back haunting memories to disburb her peace of mind.

And an overly friendly neighbor Abby adds to the mystery of what's really going on. The ending brings a startling conclusion about the identity of the other swapper, the one in the London flat. It  that made me wonder if Caroline and Francis will truly have any peace.  I gave this four stars. 


The House Swap by Miranda Rijks
December 4, 2024; Inkubator Books, NetGalley 

 "Two families organize a house swap, the perfect holiday arrangement." 

I shared the disappointment of one of the couples, the Browns, in their house swap, when the French chateau they exchanged their trendy London flat for turned out to be partially in disrepair and with ongoing renovations, with a stealthy intruder to add. 

The Lester's delight in their London flat, however, turned sour when their teen son, Rafael, disappears.

It was intriguing to see how the plot advanced and unfolded, though I was hoping for a different plot device - not relying on one person from each couple knowing each other in the past.

It's interesting that the author, Miranda Rijks, says she would never do a house swap herself.  And only because of the tidying, cleaning, and other work that would be involved. I guess she wouldn't expect  dangerous drama as in her domestic thriller!

Note: I wonder what an alternate plot could look like if the characters in the novels didn't share a secret past. 


A Book with a Similar Theme


The Wrong Sister by Claire Douglas
Harper Paperbacks, August 5. 2025, NetGalley

I found this an interesting story when a "life swap" goes wrong for two look alike sisters, Alice and Tasha. Tasha and her husband Aaron have a blissful four days on their first trip to Venice for the house swap, while Alice and Kurt have a disastrous experience in Tasha's house in Bristol, England.

I enjoyed seeing how this played out and discovering the culprits behind the murders at the swap in Bristol. Nothing was predictable. The ending, also, was a surprise - the relationship between the sisters.

Have you had an experience with a house swap? Would you do one? 

What books are you reading this week? 

Memes: The Sunday Post hosted by The Caffeinated BookreviewerAlso,  It's Monday: What Are You Readingand Sunday SalonStacking the ShelvesMailbox Monday 

New Year Reading: Books with Fascinating Themes and POVs

  Memes:     The Sunday Post ,  It's Monday: What Are You Reading , Sunday Salon , and Stacking the Shelves   I dip in and out of many b...